Monday, August 20, 2012

Just in time, Lord!

Ah! The first day of school. Wow! I can't believe it. Kristian starts 9th grade (high school!) today and Courtney starts Kindergarten. My, oh my, how time flies!

I awoke at 6:00 this morning to be sure I was up and about when Kristian left for school...wanted to be sure to tell him 'bye'. Also, wanted to have enough time for myself...emails, quiet time, journal time, etc...before Courtney woke up and we started her school day. After Kristian left, I gathered my things to begin my quiet time. I like to write in my journal before beginning my bible study...I know, I know...I MIGHT have that backwards but so far it's worked out well for me. As a matter of fact, the Lord has used the journal writing time to point out verses to me that little did I know, I needed to read for that day.

I, for one, am someone who never really knows where I'm supposed to be when I open God's word. I struggle with knowing where to begin in my bible study time...what verses the Lord wants me to focus on that day. Does anyone else struggle with the same thing? Anyway...I found with the last journal entry that the Lord uses that time to show me verses. The journal I use has a different verse written at the top of every page and I've found that the last two entries (today included) the verses at the top of the page fit so well with the entries I've written that day and laid bare before the Lord. Here's what I mean:

Today's entry focused on the first day of school for the kids. Kristian is off to High School and Courtney will begin Kindergarten home school today. My prayer for both of my children is that the Lord would guide their steps and thoughts as they walk through the day; that He would help to remind them who they are in Him. That He would also guide me as I schooled Courtney this year; to give me the wisdom and knowledge to teach her the way He would have her to learn; that my words would be His words and that He would give her the knowledge to understand what she is learning. I prayed against the inadequate feeling I have in teaching Courtney, although, I strongly feel this is what the Lord would have me to do for her. Above all else, I prayed that the Lord would be with all of us as we walked through today...that He would guide our paths.

With that said, know what today's verse was in my journal? Deuteronomy 5:33 (NIV) "Walk in all the way that the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live and prosper and prolong your days in the land that you will possess." Wow! Awesome Lord! How amazing it is that you would send this to me as an encouragement to my soul! It still blows my mind that the Lord of the universe hears my prayers, hears the silent longings of a mother's heart and answers ever so gently in the way only He can. What a mighty God we serve!

"Who am I, that the Lord of all the earth, would care to know my name, care to feel my hurt? Who am I, that the bright and morning star, would choose to light the way, for my ever wondering heart?...I am YOURS!" I am a mother, a wife, a friend, a sister, a daughter...but more importantly, I am a HIS! A child of the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. A princess adopted by the Holy Spirit and loved beyond words. When my heart cries out to you, oh Lord, you answer with a love and truth only YOU can provide. Just in time, Lord!

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Strange how the Lord works sometimes...

How many times have you prayed about something, or for someone, and felt like "nothing is happening", or "the Lord's not answering"?  Or how many times have you been telling yourself (or others) that you're praying about something/someone but you haven't been as faithful to prayer as you should have been? Be honest with yourself in answering these questions.

The Lord showed me this morning that I've done that a few times here lately. How can I expect the Lord to answer prayer when I haven't been praying "without ceasing" about it? I've just been "trusting that He knows my heart" but haven't been lifting the needs up to Him daily in prayer. What a lesson to learn.

In my quiet time this morning (which is another thing I haven't been doing lately), I was brought to Romans 12:1-3. Before I get started on that, let me share a little background. Lately, I've been struggling with some things that I just didn't know how to deal with. In those times, you would think that I would pray about it and turn to the Lord. Well, I would "talk to the Lord" in my head, but never actually found a quiet place and took time to come before the Throne and verbally say it out loud and place it before His feet. I needed to say it "out loud" for myself to hear so that I would know truly what I was facing. Sometimes if we keep things to our self, we don't truly recognize the magnitude of what we've been dealing with unless we say it out loud. It's easy to "forget" how small thorns can become BIG thorns when you cover them up for so long. So, I shared them out loud with the Lord this morning and through that I came across Romans 12:1-3.

Romans 12:1 (NIV) - Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God - this is your spiritual act of worship. 2. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - his good, pleasing and perfect will. 3. For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgement, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.

OK, I know what you may be thinking..."How do these verses pertain to praying without ceasing?"...well, they don't really but they do pertain to certain areas of my life where I've been struggling...not just with myself, but with others in my life. Refer back to the God's word above and I'll break it down for you below:

Romans 12:1 - Do everything as unto the Lord. What I say, what I think, what I do, how I treat others, how I think about others, should ALL be done as unto the Lord. Would the Lord want me to say that, think that, do that? Would he want me to treat others how I want to be treated, how HE would treat them, or would He have me to just treat them as a stranger? I need to give others the GRACE that He gives me. It's not about me or them, it's about Him.

Romans 12:2 - The things of this world don't matter...focus on Jesus! Now you would think that's a 'given'...that I would know that already. Well, I did. There are times when I need reminding of that, and I'm thankful for those times, but other people were brought to mind when I read this verse. I wish other people would remind themselves of this verse. I pray the Lord reminds them of this verse too.

Romans 12:3 - I'm no better than the next person. I am the chiefest of sinners. So, while I'm "thinking in my head" about the person/people that I wish the Lord would "deal with" I'm forgetting that I have my own problems that I need to deal with. I'm forgetting that I am the chiefest of sinners. I need to make sure my own problems are dealt with before I go thinking others need to deal with theirs.

How strange do things work out sometimes? I went before the Lord placing all the "potatoes I've been throwing in the sack" and carrying around for so long before Him and these verses are what comes out of it. It seems I've been reminded of a few things I had no idea I needed to remember right now.

I hope and pray that I will continue on the path of wisdom I've stepped onto this morning. I know it's going to be a battle as the enemy would have all of us live in ignorance. Ignorance of what the Bible says, what the Lord says, and how we are to apply that to our lives. If you've taken the time to read this blog, I ask that you would please take a moment to pray for me and my family. Please pray for wisdom in all things as we travel this journey of life. God didn't promise the journey would be easy but I do know it will be worth it in the end. Remind me who I am, Lord...I am YOURS!

Saturday, August 4, 2012

Update on the Gardner's

Wow! A Saturday morning where I'm all alone, with nothing to are gone, hubby still sleeping...only the noise of the keyboard as I type this to keep my company. So, what's a girl to do??? BLOG! Only remotely productive thing I could think of to do, really. Actually, if I'm honest with myself, there's a TON of legitimate productive stuff I could do around the house...just don't want to do them right now.

Anyway, it's been a while since my last blog, so let me update you on the happenings of the Gardner family...

Kristian starts his FRESHMAN year of high school this year. August 20th is the start date of the new school year. I took him to Freshman orientation and was immediately taken back to my high school years as I sat in the gym and listened to all the information they gave us...diploma options, diploma requirements, schedules, blah, blah, blah. I immediately wanted to get up and leave! The memories of my high school years (mostly the bad memories) flooding back to me and now I'm about to send my baby into that battlefield???!!! No way! I wanted to grab him and run...BUT, I know the world does not revolve around me or what my wishes are. Against my wishes, he is growing up. So the only thing I can do for him now, is pray for him, keep him accountable to his choices, his responsibilities, and to the morals and beliefs we carry in this house. Wish us luck! :-)

On to Courtney...she starts KINDERGARTEN this year! Talk about a shock to the baby girl is starting school this year! Oh! And does anyone remember the previous blog I posted regarding whether or not I should homeschool her or send her to public school? Well, I "won" that round and per my hubby's permission I am homeschooling her this year! I'm so thankful he is allowing me to do this, as I truly feel this is what is best for her right now. Next year, we will discuss it again and we'll see if I can go 2 for 2 in that round. ;-) I'm a little nervous about schooling her but I know I can do it with the Lord's help. We'll see how it turns out but I'm confident she (and I for that matter) will do a great job!

Jason is continuing to work as hard as he ever has. His company has started a  mandatory 12 hour workshift for all employees, so that means management (that's him) will have to work at least 13-14 hours a day. Can you say OVERLOAD??? Don't know how he does it, except for the grace of God. Today is his first weekend off in a month so he's spending it sleeping...for right now. Who knows what today holds though. Pray for him, and for us, if you think about it. My sweet hubby really needs encouragement and to be lifted up to the Father as he works this crazy schedule.

As for me, I'm still enjoying being at home with my babies. It's been quite a summer though. The older the kids get, the more they fight/bicker and the LOUDER they get. Am I the only one that sees that? Anyone else dealing with that problem? Bickering over mundane things..."Mama, he's changing the channel!" "Mama, she's been on the computer longer than she's allowed!" Agh! But honestly, I wouldn't trade it for anything. Right now, I'm also dealing with a bone spur in my neck that's causing pain in my neck, shoulders, and arms. It started back in March but I was just recently diagnosed with the problem. I started physical therapy at the end of July and so far I've seen some progress that gives me hope. Physical therapy is only a temporary fix to a permanent problem but I'm learning some new excersises so hopefully that will help in the long run.

On to happier of today, Jason and I have exactly 35 days until our cruise! I. Can't. Wait! I've been looking forward to this trip since we booked it in February. Look out Nassau, St. Thomas, and St. Maarten! The Gardner's are headed your way! (I don't think that cruise ship will know what hit it when we step onboard! ;-) )

Ok, I think I've caught everyone up now. On to my day...until next time! :-)